Is this ok when wife goes out with old college friends?

seems right now she wants to go out with her old friends ,found on face-book from college, ok guys and girls, just dont trust some of them feel jealous right now ,wife wants to keep them from me ,right now , i wonder how other spouse's feel?


is that ok, my wife is a good girl not worried ,if she was to cheat but always vigilant,why do i feel this way and yes i have asked to go out with her but have been told no, i think because i am a social person who can be life of party she is afraid i'll take over.


just doesn't sit well and has anyone else dealt with this ?Is this ok when wife goes out with old college friends?
I think it's fine if a wife goes out with old friends. My wife does some regular catching up with a couple old friends, and every now and then she meets a new friend. Sometimes she'll buy a sexy new outfit before going out, but the best part is that she's always quite amorous when she gets home from her night out, even if she gets home at 3 in the morning.Is this ok when wife goes out with old college friends?
anytime you are ';told'; no about accompanying your spouse in such situations that is not acceptable. you say she is a ';good girl'; but you apparently have doubts about her intentions.





you need to go with her so they know you and you know them. it doesnt have to be every time but i firmly believe there should be no secrets. what is her issue with you meeting them? you say its because you'll be the life of the party but is that what she thinks? ask her.





if you are satisfied after meeting them and feel secure with it then let her go out.
i think it would be ok for her to go out with her female friends a couple of times solo and then bring you in (ya know girl stuff). but male friends, you defiantly need to be involved from day one. never know could be exs and they may have feeling for her still.... but you need to be involved. remind her when she would get pissed when you hung out with your guy friends and not with her.
Of course it is not right, she knows it and you know it. Let her decide them or you then walk out the door if she picks them over you. You don't want to waste your time on such a woman.
You %26amp; your wife shouldn't do EVERYTHING together. You both need time with your own separate friends. I wouldn't worry about it. Let her have fun and stop smothering her!!
why not, the important in marriage to stay smooth and long time bonding is the TRUST to one another.let her go for a change you know
If you trust your wife, then let her catch up with old friends. besides they are probally married and have kids. Everyone is entitled to have friends who are the opposite sex. So dont worry so much
You should be included. You are married. That is kinda the deal you both signed up for.
Don't worry, they are all grown up now, I'm sure some of the others are married as well, let her have a good time.
let her live her own life
It actually kind of depends. On the one hand, you must both have separate things to do, people to know, places to go, but on the other hand you are married and that means you are sharing your lives with each other.





So all I can tell you is you must communicate. Ask her why she feels such a need to keep this part of her life to herself. BE CALM. Be gentle. You have a right to know, but you'll push her away if you scream and cry and panic.





Be open, tell her you feel insecure, and just want reassurance. Tell her you love her and you're feeling concerned, but if the answer is more simple than you think, believe her until given a good reason not to, as marriage is based on trust, and you must trust to gain hers.
Okay, let me try to help you with a serious answer.





I too met a lot of old friends on facebook and elsewhere, some of them were old flames to boot. I did go out with them, re-lived some fantasies,but it affected my married life with my wife not really trusting me. While all I was up to was innocent flirting, this wasn't how my wife saw it. Things came to such a pass that we seriously considered separating. Then we sat and spoke it out - she told me what she felt offended by, and I told her what I was really up to.





She came to accept my need for friendship, and I accepted her need to feel secure. Our relationship is back to its old magic and now we both laugh off our insensitiveness.





Please talk it out and come to a mutually accepted solution. No relationship is worth breaking just because of fears, doubts and misgivings.
If she is telling you NO then that means no. If you suspect in anyway at all she is cheating (tho you said she isnt that kinda gal), then ask her flat out if she is.


Otherwise backoff and allow her some space away from you. One thing I think women get annoyed with is a husband who expects to be the center of her social delights. If your wife is a good woman (as u said she is) and is just thrilled to find a part of her life again...then I say back off and give her some space or else you risk making her feel untrusted, or worse, like you are smothering her. No grown woman enjoys being treated like another one of the kids.
If there are guys included, then YOU should be included. She is no longer a single person and shouldn't expect you to willingly be excluded. This one I would not budge on. I would NEVER have excluded my husband from such an occasion. This is just downright wrong.





Girls only, you don't necessarily have to be included more than occasionally. You could meet them, have a drink and then leave because you have something else to do. They certainly shouldn't be surprised that you would like to meet them.





I'll bet money that her friends would wonder what was going on between you and your wife if you were excluded from all social occasions. They'd probably think things were not so good between you. There are guys who certainly would think there was a possibility she was available.


Perhaps she would prefer that you not hear about any antics while she was in college.

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