Cheating Hubby...What should I do?

Back in July, hubby and I were fighting alot, so I took our son and told him i was going to my sister's for the night...He took me up there and left. Instead of worrying about whether or not I was ever going to come home...he went and got some friends together to get drunk...one of his friends brought his sister (whom has always wanted my hubby) and sheflirted with him until she finally got him to sleep with her (in my bed!) He came and got me the next day and had a hickey mark but told me that it was from wrestling with his guy friend...A month later I found out by eavesdropping what had really happened that night. i left him again but went home after 3 days...as I have no income and I my son can't be dragged from place to place like that....He says he is genuinely sorry and that he never wants to hurt me again....but he has never acted like he truly regretted it..More like he got away with it...Its like he was able to cheat, get caught, get in trouble, and still have me and our son. I don't like the man he has become in the 4 years we have been married...I don't think this really qualifies as a question...I guess I'm just looking for advice...I can't leave because I have no means to support my son and I sure as hell aint letting hubby have him...I can't drive either...never really learned, plus I have no car...I have no where to go...Help me please...Share your cheating spouse stories or anything that might help me be less miserable....I do plan to leave BTW soon as I complete nursing school. I just need to know how to deal with him and his neglect until then.Cheating Hubby...What should I do?
Once you finish nursing school, you will be able to support yourself easily. Just keep your mind on the prize and keep on working hard. You will soon be free of him.Cheating Hubby...What should I do?
Stay with your family until you get back on your feet, and can get a job and finish nursing school. Being with someone like than any longer isn't good for you, or your son. If he was really sorry you would know it, he doesn't deserve you.
learning to drive would be a start. but you should also complete nursing school as soon as possible. but more importantly you have family right. go to them. and have them take you in. and from that point work on divorce papers and getting a job.
People make mistakes...what is this relationship worth to you??


Plz don't stay b/c you have no income. Become INDEPENDANT or you will be wasting your life on someone who is not worth it.
Focus on yourself and getting independent. I would encourage counseling to sort things out and see how motivated he is to save the marriage. Don't get pregnant again!
Once a cheater always a cheater.
Go to marriage counseling and see if that can solve anything.
you dont need him.... LEAVE HIM NOW!!! he is a cheater and he doesnt even care!!! i would go get a job and get money so you can find a place of your own... =]





GOOD LUCK!
lol you're messed.
Separate yourself in your mind from him until you finish school. Forget about where he is, what he is doing, etc. Forget about his laundry, food, etc. Apparently, he forgot he had a wife and child! Now he feels he has the ';little woman'; backed into a corner. Use that worry to worry about yourself and child. Even if you can get a part time job (hopefully you are on or near the busline). Perhaps you could try to make it a go with family until you finish school. Children are flexible and you are there. Everytime you feel that overwhelming urge to question him, just start thinking about you and your child's lives. Good luck.
Wow. Sounds similar to my past 5 years. I did not marry him and have no kid. But, I have been with my fiance for 5 years. A year and a half ago we had an argument and I got sick of the fighting. I told him to go to his sisters thinking he would think about how nasty he was being. Instead, they got drunk and his sisters best friend came on to him and he slept with her. It did not end there, he moved in with her within a week thinking he was going to start all over with her. I was crushed. That did not last more than a week when she did not want him. In time he came back and I had hoped things would change. Six months after that he started getting moody again, drinking and after another argument, met someone on the internet and moved in with her for 4 months. At first I was a complete mess. Eventually, I started making friends and dated someone I really did not care for. After that four months he left her and we spoke. He stopped partying and it seemed he had made big changes in himself. I took him back and for the past few months his attitude seemed like a miracle. For the past week though I am not so sure. He has been playing computer games for months when he was not at work and spending no time with me. I only slightly complained and he seemed understanding until I finally put my foot down. Now he is not playing his game but is moody again and it seems he has not changed like I thought. He slept on the sofa tonite and it is just before Christmas Eve Day that I had looked forward to. I know how you are feeling. YOU ARE VERY SMART to control his money now. I had nothing when this all happened and he left without me being capable of paying the bills myself. Don't be foolish enough to think all is getting better if his mood changes. Stay in control of the money. You are right that he is immature and spoiled. Get control of your life and learn how to drive. Do not keep yourself in the position of depending on him. I wish you all the luck in the world.
From the Christian perspective, you have to forgive him or the anger and resentment will start working on your health.





If this is too difficult for you to do, I would have a conversation with him so he can picture you doing the same thing. If he were in your shoes, what would he do and could he handle having some other man's hands on you?





The Word says, God is not mocked; whatsoever a man sows that he shall also reap.
No offense, but he sounds like a comlete jack ***. If you can't leave him because of money issues and if you have no where else to go, I'd make his *** sleep on the couch from now on. Or if you have a dog you always can make him stay in the dog house in the backyard which is even better. I know a lot of guys who say that they're sorry for cheating on their girlfriends... and then they just go and do it again. Whatever you do, don't let him take advantage of you. Really, stand your ground. It sounds to me like you know what you want out of your life, so after you graduate nursing school and get situated with a decent job, pack your stuff and go. Trust me you can do a lot better. I mean, why settle for someone who will cheat on you when you can be with someone who will remain faithful and treat you with more respect.


Hope this helped.
approach a great N.G.O ......or hier a good and succesful lawyer...without any doubt...you have totally legal rights over your husband property.....when you filled a case aginst your husband..you get very good compensation every month for your child developement....if you have no money ....approach NGO they give you a free lawyer..do not woorry...law are tottally with you...