How can they be happy?

Spouses who cheat and leave their wives/husbands and kids for the other person - how do they deal with the guilt? Is it possible to feel no guilt at all? How do they start a life with each other knowing that everything they build together started as lies and deception. What do they say when they move into a new home? We had to go through a lot to get here - we had to destroy your spouse's life, your childrens' lives, your family - but that's okay because we are in love and we deserve to be happy! Maybe you have to be a cheater and someone who cheats with married people to understand. I can't understand can you??How can they be happy?
They will never be truly happy as there is no way to trust someone who bonded with you in such a deceitful and selfish manner. Eventually they ';high'; of a new experience will fade and they will be faced with the problems that ruined the first relationship. To the person who believes it is holier-than-thou to expect someone to honor their marriage vows, wake up it's that sort of thinking that is eroding the moral fiber of our society. God save you!How can they be happy?
Everyone deserves to be happy. And yeah, you have to be a cheater to understand it.
IT'S A SHAME ! THAT PEOPLE DON'T THINK WITH THEIR HEAD . INSTEAD OF FROM THEIR PANTS OR SKIRT DOWN . THOSE PEOPLE SHOULD NOT BE HAPPY AT ALL . KNOWING , ALL THE PAIN AND SUFFERING THEY HAVE PUT THEIR KIDS OR SPOUSES THRU . IT'S SAD TO SEE THAT FAMILY ARE BEEN DESTROY .
no i never understood when my husband left, thought he was just angry, but days later i found out about her. and that he had been seeing her for a while, it totally destroyed the marriage, counciling was out of the question according to him. they really don't care if they hurt u, they are not the ones hurt, they are gaining a new love, and for now they are happy. they will magnify the falts of the spouse they no longer want, and amigine the new mate has everything they ever wanted. they will even rewrite the entire marriage, if the hurt spouse try's to draw them back, by bringing up all the time and love invested, they will claim they never even liked u. yes it is devistating, and the hurt remains years after the harm was done. but u know what, it may appear as though they are doing well, new home, new this or that, but if u could see what happens to them later on because of their choices, u would know that their definitly is payback. what one sows they do reap. my ex left me for the other woman, at first they appeared to be living high on the hog, new truck, new business, and not a single thought to what they had done to me. today he is unable to work, he had to move back to the mobile home from hell, no heat, really bad. he did at one time have a beautiful home, a good wife. now all he has is the old mobile, so karma does come back to people who do harm to others.
There is an existing problem deep in the core of that marriage. And one need not to be a ';cheater';,according to you to justify a situation. However, to assume that you are better than those who have acted to what you deem in your eyes is ';morally wrong';, need a reality check. It is this self righteous,holly-er than though attitude is exactly why marriages fall apart.