Tuesday, August 10, 2010

How do you deal with an emotionless spouse?

It's really beginning to get to me. I feel unwanted and insignificant. He is a highly intelligent and outstanding person. He is always helping other people. We have known each other 3 yrs and serious for 2yrs. It really hurts that he doesn't even think our anniversary is important. He has never gotten me flowers. Our sex life is extremely dry and lacks intimacy. I beginning to think I should move on. He was diagnosed as having paranoid schizophrenia 10 yrs ago. Does anyone have any advice. I know he's not cheating and he's an exceptional man. On top of it all I'm bipolar. Such a combo...How do you deal with an emotionless spouse?
try talking to him without being accousitory if thats possible....more like ...I like it when you '; ...'; little things to let him know what you like.....How do you deal with an emotionless spouse?
You need to talk with him and express your feeling, and them ask him if he would like to separate, tell him you really feel unwanted and insignificant, you do not enjoy sex with him, let him know how he hurts you and is not interested in you anniversary, and you feel the need to move on. Maybe this will wake him up.
oh boy yea yall are quite the couple....well i mean if he is a busy man i wouldnt take it personal but i would consider the both of you going to counseling for eachother...get that spark back in your marriage ya know...and im not just saying that because you both have been diagnosed with disorders i think its always great to get someone in the middle to help aim your feelings ';correctly'; at eachother...so your partner can really take the time to ';see'; what you are feeling...im working on gettin into it myself.
It's kinda hard to show emotion to someone who's bipolar.
Doesn't sound like the two of you are very compatible. You might want to move on.
sounds like a winning combo to me. But if you cant handle it than move on

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