If you were married with children and your husband cheated and bore a child is it wrong not to accept the kid

also if it was done more than once but accepted the first two times, is it wrong not to accept the last one?





What if you legally seprated the guy and you had a child with someone you were in a relationship with and later on got back with your spouse to make it work, and then he cheated again while you was pregnant and impregnated someone else at the same time as you. Is it wrong to not accept the child into the family or deal with the mother of the child?





How do you think this would effect the 2 children you already have together (lets say ages 9 and 10)?If you were married with children and your husband cheated and bore a child is it wrong not to accept the kid
It isn't a binary question.





I look at issues like this from the child's perspecitve. Will the child resent you as they get older for not doing what would have been 'good' for them?





If there is a child to be ';accepted'; then I would accept them, because to accept them means you a problably providing something to them. Mentorship, teaching, food, shelter etc.





The binary question to me is, do you stay with someone who is unfaithful. I say no, they are who they are and they are coming back to you for reasons that will not ultimately satisfiy your needs.If you were married with children and your husband cheated and bore a child is it wrong not to accept the kid
this all depends on your emotions as well as everyone else's.. i have no idea how i would react, but i think it would be hard to not accept the child. but it would also be very hard to be a loving ';mother figure';........





i think you have to do what is going to be best for you and your kids, the ones that are actually yours. and dump the guy who keeps putting you in such troubling problems. i actually had to pour myself a drink after reading that. thats terrible and if you need to talk or whatever you can message me
I think if this is your relationship, it is a mess from start to finish. It is unhealthy and you need to end it. Children are innocent, no matter who mommy or daddy is. However, if you ended the relationship, the children that came as the result of affairs would not be an issue to anyone other than the biological parent.
I would not have to accept his children, because he would have been out on his @$$ the first time it happened!!!
why are you bothering to get back together with this bozo!! he's clearly using you, and i'd bet you and your kids will be better off without all the drama.
GOD YOU ARE IN A BIG MESS LOOK I PERSONALLY WOULD LEAVE THE GUY BUT THATS JUST ME . YOU KNOW WHAT YOU HAVE AND IF YOU WANT TO MAKE THINGS WORK AND YOU WANT HIM BACK THEN HE IS A PACKAGE DEAL YOU TAKE HIM WITH ALL HIS KIDS ITS NOT JUST HIM ANYMORE HE HAS KIDS AND IN ORDER TO BE WITH HIM YOU HAVE TO ACCEPT HIS KIDS THE FACT THAT HE CHEATS AND HAS KIDS EVERYWHERE THATS WHAT YOUR TAKING ON
the other children have a right to know they have a half sibling





i say leave the jerk let the kids know what's going on and accept the other child as your other children's sibling
One time shame on him two times shame on you. Kick that man to the curb. It's not the kids fault that he didn't keep his thing in his pants. You don't have to accept the kids or the mothers. As long as he takes care of the children he has with you then that's all that should matter. Kids are more important then anything.
no it wouldnt be wrong to accept the children. its not the childrens fault , they are only victims in this. but they have a right to know they have a half brother or sister out there.


no child should be treated different, they should all be treated as an equal. it matters if someone cheats, but if a child was brought into the world due to cheatin', the child shouldnt be treated any different. it has a right to know its mother/father. and if theres any half brothers or sisters. good luck. hope this helps.