Why did husbands cheat on their spouses? :(?

my stepdad cheated on my mom recently


and i really looked up 2 him y'know. i got along with him more than my mom. he felt like my real dad cuz my real dad i never saw him. and i feel betrayed. He didnt seem like that type of man.





I'm already dealing with trust issues with my husband due to the fact that he did cheat in his teen years with someone else physically and he did to me emotionally after we were married just to get back at me 4 talking to an ex, which was a big misunderstanding. (the ex was telling me issues between him and his fiancee of 3 yrs)





It seems like cheating bastards run in the family(other ppl in my fam had ths problem). How could I end this chain of cheating doom?Why did husbands cheat on their spouses? :(?
i believe issues do run in families





to heal it for you you must deal with your internal trust issues when you change your belief system your boundaries change and your partner will pick up that cheating will never be tolerated by you





regardless whats happen in your past it is only today and the future you can worry about the issue with your step Father is your mums issue do not take it on support her but do not take it out on your partner or project onto him your stepfathers bad behaviour when you build up your own strenght and now that you are worth loving it will never guarantee that it wont happen to you or any of us in this world but you will know that you are a great person who will never accept cheating as a way of life and if anyone does it to you it will be goodbye see you later because not all men cheat and i am off to find one of them





cheating is the individuals problem get your relationship vtal and alive and yourself mysterious





good luckWhy did husbands cheat on their spouses? :(?
They're selfish, and I'm proud of you to take note of this, but you can't change someone's personality so easily.
There is nothing that you are going to be able to do to stop it. A cheat is a cheat. cheating is a choice that you make. I don't beleive that it runs in the family. It is up to you to decide if this is something that you are willing to deal with.
Men cheat because another woman made them feel more loved and respected than their wife.





Women cheat because aonther man made them feel more loved and respected than their wife.





It's about the same reasons why men and women cheat. Statistics show that it's about even the occurences of marital infidelity between men and women.





Cheating takes 3 people. The cheater, the outsider and the one who pushed them away.
A woman who:


1. Marries a decent guy


2. Takes great care of her husband sexually


3. Is kind and helpful to him out of bed


4. Takes care of her body, exercises stays in shape


Will not have a cheating husband.
It sad you have suffered this and experienced those around you being of this nature. But you have over generalized your statement by saying that cheating seems to run in the family which i disagree with as one's action is based on their values, morals and other issues that driven them to do or behave in this manner.





In regards to ensuring this does not happen, there is not much you can do..but do your best on your part and pray. Remember it takes two to make and work at a marriage..so try sustaining what you have with your spouse via communication, continuously dating and plenty of interaction together.
The bottom line is this, cheaters do so because of childhood issues and until they have them worked out they will continue to cheat as a way of compensating in dealing with those issues.
men cheat


1. because they are cheaters


2. because they are not respected admired appreciated loved at home


3. because their wife stops the s**


4. because they need love just as much as woman





women cheat


1. because their emotional needs are not being met in some way


2. because they are cheaters


3. because their spouse is not paying attention


4. revenge





communication is key in any marriage / relationship.


trust love admiration respect appreciation loyalty friendship s** intimacy honesty are also very important aspects and each partner should give 100% to the relationship and each other.





its also important to visit with family and friends. have separate hobbies and interest. go out on dates just the two of you and with the kids. go out with friends.
I think it's just because most men do it - sorry





They're stupid and selfish





Harriet
Of course, we all know that while men and women are both capable of cheating, it's often the guys who have the biggest problem keeping their belts firmly buckled. And we all know that no matter who it's with, why it's done, or where the after-hours canoodling takes place, cheating is-most of the time-the ultimate relationship death sentence. But instead of dwelling on what happens after the cheating takes place, one of the ways to perhaps prevent infidelity is by knowing a little bit about why men stray.





There are many reasons as to why a man may cheat, whether it is on his girlfriend, wife or partner. However, do all men cheat?


When asked the question “ Does a man need more than woman” we got a number of yes’ with a variety of whys, which are as follows:





The reasons Men and Women both cheat are:


-Emotional emptiness.


-General dissatisfaction with the relationship.


-To avoid facing existing relationship problems.


-Fear of intimacy and commitment.


-To be seen and heard.


-Lack of physical attraction to partner.





Some say that because they may cheat, it does not mean they do not love the person they are in a relationship with. For most, it is just a ‘sexual thing’. The person a man cheats with may mean nothing to them. It is like they cannot help themselves, but as another guy stated, depending on how stable the man is, depends on how stable the relationship and commitment is. I'm not offering them as excuses, merely explanations as to what happens in that brain (and other body parts) of his-in hopes that you might be able to prevent it. Here, the top reasons why men cheat:





To Fulfill His Biological needs -You know the old anthropological tale. A man's main job, besides killing the saber-tooth, is to spread his seed in order to ensure the survival of his genetic legacy. It's a man's biology to want to wander. Does that mean he should, or that he can't help it? Of course not. But it does mean that a man is going to have strong-extremely strong-biological urges to knock on the doors of neighboring huts. Are men predestined to cheat? My answer is no, they're not-despite their biology. But often times, they do have to fight it.





To Get the Attention - Sure, some guys cheat because, well, maybe the sexual frequency has slowed a bit, but the truth is that plenty of men who are having regular sex with their partner are also having sex with someone else. Why? Because cheating isn't just about the sex. Just as a woman who cheats may be seeking more affection than what she's getting at home, a man often cheats because he's seeking the attention that he no longer gets at home.





To Get Out - I know lots of guys who simply don't have the strength to end it. They may try (';I'm just not happy';), or they may take other tactics to drive a woman away. A lot of guys simply have trouble breaking off relationships because they don't want to be perceived as that bad guy, the jerk, the insensitive lout who ended something good. So they tiptoe around the issue in hopes that she'll get so frustrated that she'll back out first. Well, if that doesn't work, then a man knows that the only way out is to commit the relationship sin that drives a woman away for good. It's not right, but it's what happens.





Stalenees - Relationships need to be fine tuned %26amp; refreshed. You're comfortable with your routine and you like your routine, but it's always nice to change things up. What men really want in relationships (and what I suspect women also want) is to be able to take comfort in the routine of a long-term commitment, as long as there are some surprises that make it feel like a new relationship every once in a while. In order to keep the relationship strong, you've got to change the songs every once in a while.





';Cheating is one of the most selfish acts a person can commit, because despite the fact that they entered into a relationship with another person, they choose to act as though they are the only one whose feelings, needs, and desires matter.'; %26gt;%26gt;r
Men cheat because they are afraid of death, plain and simple. It's true.%26gt;%26gt;