Your spouse cheats and then dies a few months later, would you go to the funeral?

This is related to another question I posted some time ago. I'm just curious to see how everyone would deal with this. Go or not? If so, why?Your spouse cheats and then dies a few months later, would you go to the funeral?
Yes I would go and whisper to him he was a bad lay so I had to cheat.Your spouse cheats and then dies a few months later, would you go to the funeral?
I would definately go because like everyone else is saying too,they may have cheated but you still have good memories with that person and the good outweighs the bad.If my ex-husband (who cheated with my best friend) died I would take my 16 year old son and we would go together,even though he has very few memories of his dad.I feel that he should go because what if he didn't and then later regretted not going.
I know a woman whose husband died and all these credit card bills started coming in the mail. They were for dinners she never had with him. Motels she never went to with him. Flowers he never sent to her. Jewelry, which she never got. If he wouldn't have already been dead, she probably would have killed him herself. LOL! But, she had kids and was glad she didn't know beforehand for their sake. And, even if she did, she'd have went for THEIR sake. It was their father, after all.
Yes, you go to the funeral. Stop being ';the victim'; for two seconds and be the bigger person. Say hello the the in-laws and give them your condolences.





What do you want here? Are you mad at your cheating spouse? Do you want them to suffer/pay? Guess what...they're dead! Happy now?





Why wouldnt you go? Because they cheated? Spouses get cheated on everyday and still have to sack up and make it through the day.
Yes, I would go. You are going for the living not the deceased.


You need closure. The family needs closure. If you do not go, you will regret later.


Plus what about the time prior to the cheating.


The funeral is to celebrate the whole life. One mistake should not keep you away.
This is up to you. Go or do not go based on your feeling. Showing respect for the dead only means anything if you actually had some respect for the person in life. If you did, go, if you didn't anymore, don't go.
I would go, just for closure. After all, I did love this person once, and no matter what has happen....he is gone now. Why be bitter for the rest of my life...IT IS EASY TO FORGIVE A DEAD PERSON, RATHER THAN A LIVE DOG.
Yes because you were connected to this person and I'm assuming that you loved this person even if you are pissed at them.


Plus you might really regret the moment to spit on them!
of course you go to his funeral, even if you hate hims guts for cheating on you and hate him you should still go. go out of respect.
Yes. just because the cheated does not change the fact that you love them. so if my spouse cheated then died i would go to the funeral.
I would. Because I loved that person once, and I'd like to wish him well and say goodbye.
Yes. I think I would go. Maybe not entirely for him, but for his family and friends who cared about him.
Absolutely not.
are you linked to the death? if so then no, but i would make sure to go just to make sure, take dancing lessons first so I can tango on the grave.
As his spouse it is your place to go to the funeral
I would go...otherwise I would always wonder....
I would, for closure for myself and for our son's emotional support.
Yes, I would go and make sure that his the other woman is there then I can tell her on the face that : you can have him all to yourself from NOW!
Yes to make sure the sob is dead.
yes,he is still my husband and the father of my kids..I would go..but the home wrecker better not be there
yes i would go, as far as i'm concerned i would do the right thing.


to say good bye


we had some good memories
maybe no because i would kill my husband if he cheated on me so he would of died because of me
Yes once their dead why not.
I would go for my children.
I would go for the closure. But, If that ***** he was cheating with better not be there well you are.
Yeah I'd go. I'd wait till they planted her and then piss on her grave.
Yes, for my kids and for me too
of course IF U STILL CARE ABOUT HER U NOOB