Monday, August 16, 2010

How did you meet your spouse??

Just got out of an 8r relationship (he cheated) and I have been single for about 3mo. I go out to entertain myself becuase its been so hard for me to deal with this. I feel so lonely and depressed all the time I feel like I'm going crazy. I'm not expecting to jump into a relationship right away but I try to open myself up and be friendly towards other guys but i just can't. I feel like I will never meet anyone and it scares me. The only person Ive known was my ex-boyfriend and I dont want to fall back becuase of the comfort. I want to believe in love again but its so hard right now to see otherwise...i just want to snap out of it and be happy again. How did you meet your spouse? Any advice and experience would be greatly appreciated. thanks.How did you meet your spouse??
What i did for entertainment, and also to meet some women is, I joined Plenty of Fish. It didn't cost a dime, and I can talk to them, or if I choose, not to. It's fun, exciting, and you NEVER know who might e-mail you. If they do nothing for you form their profile, hit the delete button, and continue on searching. It worked for me, and I have really enjoyed it......what do you have to lose? www.plentyoffish.com is the website, if interested.How did you meet your spouse??
My husband and i met when him and his family moved across the street from me and my family...He was 25 and i was 21 at the time and we started dating march 1990 and got married 10 months later on january 19,1991 when he was 26 and i was 22...So we have been together 18 yrs and happily married 17 yrs....Just take your time and when your ready for another relationship maybe some friends or family could introduce you to a guy or go volunter somewhere and maybe you will meet a guy there or personal ads.
I met my wife in elementary school, so I doubt that will help much. But there are options. Join a new church and go to church outings. If you have a dog, take the dog to the park and mingle. Volunteer at a local senior center where other people may be volunteering. There are plenty of ideas.
I met my husband at work. 10 years after my divorce from my first husband and lots of losers in between.





Sometimes you just have to wait for the right one and deal with the losers in between.
you should learn to be happy being single.


you will find some else some day- ,don't push it , or you could end up worse than you where before








to answer you question .. i won her in a card game!


kidding - we met at work.
I met my husband through the online personals. This seems to be more and more common nowadays. Most younger couples I know had met online.
well i met my spouse in highschool, but why not try church or something. not only will you feel better better but hopefully you will find a respectful man who is not a cheater! hope this helps
i met my spouse at school. maybe u should go to college and meet someone there. Good luck!! that sux about ur ex. Oh yeah and don't go back with him!!! no matter how lonely u get.
I met my man at the local pub.
Honestly...an online dating site. We have been together for a little over 6 years and getting married this November.
hi there i met my spouse online on singles net we have been together for 2 years and still going strong my advice would be to trust yourself and allow yourself to go out its better to have lost then to never love at all and that is true i am sorry for what happend to you in the past but just know that you will meet the guy of your dreams and if you do the online date thing meet somewhere public and also pick someone who you think you would really be compatable to dont fall for some guy just cause he wants to date you good luck and god bless
well i met my husband in a restaurant ,i would walk my kids to school and go have coffee with the girls and he would always be there, i never thought he was int rested in me because i am a big woman but he gave his number to the waitress and ask her to hand it to me ,it was his number ,i called it once and we have been together ever since,,...





I am sorry you have to go through this alone I do know what it is like to be cheated on and it did take me a while but you will find someone
I am sorry to hear about your relationship ending. I met my hubby through my best friend. Her boyfriend at the time had a best mate and that was him. We met and 3 weeks later he asked me to marry him. We were secretly engaged for about 1 1/2 yrs I was only 17 and he was 19 at the time. Then I fell pregnant and we got married as my mum thought it was a sin for us not to be. Which was fine for us as we had been engaged anyway. We have now been together for 16 yrs and married for 14 years and have 4 girls aged 13, 11, 7 and 3 and a boy 1 1/2. We have had our ups and downs and have been through a bit whether it be deaths, or family squabbles but have managed to tough it out. As for you it will take time to heal so don't rush yourself getting over it all. Good on you for trying to get back out there and start your life out new and fresh but still give yourself that time to deal with everything in your own way. It will be kind of a grieving process so to speak as 8 yrs is a long time to be with someone who you loved dearly. You will find love again when the time is right. Good luck and god bless. :)


Your friend, Kym.

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